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JOIN Roxanne for her Aug. 4 Interview with Dr. Marica Cannon, author of The Gift of Anger

By Roxanne Howe Murphy · Comments (0)
Thursday, July 21st, 2011

JOIN Roxanne for her Aug. 4 Interview with Dr. Marica Cannon, author of The Gift of Anger

Dr. Marcia Cannon is the author of the recently published book, The Gift of Anger.

Does a discussion on the lively topic of anger pique your interest?  On this special live call,  hear Marcia Cannon discuss the transformational gifts of powerful energy.   There will be time for questions, as well.  You won’t want to miss this!

11:30 a.m.-12:30 pm PDT

Register for the call here:

http://www.deepcoachinginstitute.com/marcia-cannon-interview-registration/

The Gift of Anger: 7 Steps to Uncover the Meaning of Anger and Gain
Awareness, True Strength, and Peace

The Gift of Anger is an “owner’s manual” that takes the fear and negativity out of this core emotion and makes anger not only understandable, but even valuable. Using the 7-step gift-of-anger process, you’ll discover the often-unconscious reasons for your anger, and learn how to transform the volatile energy of anger into calm, dependable–and lasting — emotional strength.  From slight irritation to fury, your anger can become a trusted guide in your search for greater understanding and peace. The Gift of Anger shows you how.

For more information, visit www.giftofanger.com, and also check out The Gift of Anger on Amazon, where you can read parts of the book and see the growing number of reviews.

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Categories : Awareness, Coaching, Deep Coaching, Enneagram, Interviews

Enneagram coach training program introductory call

By Roxanne Howe Murphy · Comments (0)
Monday, August 2nd, 2010

Have you found that you cannot imagine coaching without the Enneagram?

Our Enneagram coach training offered through the Deep Coaching Certification program provides an advanced, unique, and in-depth learning opportunity well suited for experienced human development professionals wishing to integrate the rich benefits of presence-based Enneagram work into their professional niche. If this sounds like you, please join me for a fr*ee introductory call on the program on Tuesday, Aug. 10.

I’ll share three robust principles and practices of presence-based Enneagram coaching that leads to profound results. You’ll learn about the program’s framework, how it is structured to support your continuing growth and embodiment of the Enneagram’s wisdom as a person and for more effective coaching results. And there will be time to answer your questions.

Go to www.deepcoachinginstitute.com and click on the registration link on the right column of the website.
I look forward to seeing you there.

LOGISTICS:
Tuesday, Aug. 10, 11:30 a.m.-12:30 pm PT.

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Categories : Being Present, Coach training, Coaching, Deep Coaching - The Book, Enneagram, Enneagram coach training

The Paradox of Hope

By Roxanne Howe Murphy · Comments (0)
Saturday, April 17th, 2010

I just had a rich conversation with one of my clients, where we explored the distinction between “hope” and “what is.”  

I have found this to be a tricky place in my own life.  After all,  hope is generally considered something uplifting, inspiring and forward moving.  We hear “What do we have if not hope?”  Isn’t this something we hold onto? Hope for happiness?  Hope for a better future?  Hope for a  better outcome?  Hope for a  better life?  Isn’t this is the basis for why many engage in spiritual work or coaching, for example?  Hoping that something will be better.

One could even have a type of hope about something in the past.  For example, have you ever wished that your parents had done something differently?  Or that someone wouldn’t have suffered the way that they did?  We could actually spend a lot of energy there, that can never have its wished-for impact.  I love the comment by Jack Kornfield that,  ”Forgiveness is letting go of the hope of a better past.”

This leads to inquiring about the different dimensions of hope.  

On one hand, hope can take a number of very active forms, with the ultimate effect  of resisting ’what is.’   For example, I  could  hope that another person would treat me in a certain way, or that a person would make a certain choice.   I could hope that I had more of something or less of something.   Take a look for yourself, and see what it is that you are “hoping for.”  Then, look at the outcome. What difference has it made?  Has it lessened or increased your unhappiness?   

Here are a few questions that I’ve found helpful for me.  When does hope become a want?  Where does this form of hope come from?  Is it from an idea about how things are supposed to be?  Is there someway that ‘hoping’ takes you away from looking at something inside of yourself?  What are the outcomes of the mental activity of “hoping?”

 What about the  hope you experience in your heart?   What are your deepest hopes?  I think this is where the teaching of Gandi supports us:  ‘be the change you want to see in the world.’  This is where authentic hope actually lives–in the embodiment of our lives.   What is it that we can address inside of ourselves that allows just this one person to make a shift?  When we make the change, then hope lives.  

Herein is the paradox of hope.

Roxanne Howe-Murphy, Ed.D. www.deepcoaching.com

Through the Power of Allowing, Discover The Wonder of Being at  Home in Yourself.  Herein lies real peace and your life’s truest expression.

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Categories : Awakening, Awareness, Being Present, Coaching, Paradoxes, Uncategorized
Tags : Ego, Forgiveness, Hope, Jack Kornfield, Self-awareness, Self-knowledge, Spirituality

Coaching your clients from Presence

By Roxanne Howe Murphy · Comments (0)
Friday, April 16th, 2010

In recent conversations with coaches, we’ve talked about how to best support our clients when using the Enneagram.  There is so much to learn about the internal world of each of the nine types or spheres of consciousness.  

It’s true.  The Enneagram is a vast body of wisdom.  It speaks to our intellectual curiosity because it has so much to teach. There’s so much information on each of types,  and sometimes, that’s where we get stuck.  In the busy mind culture that most of us live in,  the tendency is to want to understand it all, and understand it right now.  That’s why the Enneagram has often been misinterpreted simply as a “typing’ tool.  It’s easy for the mind to categorize and label and then come up with a few solutions to how to work with that particular type.

 But the Enneagramm also speaks to our hearts because we can’t help but be deeply touched by seeing how the nine egoic structures play out, and  the enormous unconscious suffering that is caused when we take the ego to be who we are.  When we penetrate below the structures, and see the true yearning that each individual has, we see that the majority of our unconscious behaviors are the ego’s way of trying to resolve the pain.    Our compassion for ourselves, for our clients and loved ones,  and indeed, for the world, is  magnfied a thousand times.  It’s a lot for the heart to bear.

And that’s why the Enneagram also focuses on the wisdom of the Body.  It is here, in the belly center (kath point or lower tan tien) that we come into contact with the 3rd center of our whole being’s intelligence.  As we develop the capacity to ‘be with’ this center, that our experience of ourselves in relationship to the world changes.  We have our substance, our physicality, our hereness, our inner power, and through this center that we connect with ground. 

When we connect to the foundational center, the belly, our hearts can open to and hold with such compassion the human condition. And from that place, what the client needs from our time together, becomes more available.

It’s a radically different way of approaching coaching:  with a depth of Presence that is developed through contact with the 3 centers of intelligence.   Coaches,  this counter-intuitive approach offers such value. It is based upon what is here, what is real, and not upon the mental agenda of the busy mind.  And from Presence, all coaching topics, from peronal and relationship issues to organizational strategy-planning  becomes cleaner and clearer.

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“On the transformational journey, one size does not fit all.  There is a path that connects with YOUR inner experience. Find it and you’ll have the KEY you’ve been looking for.”   Please help  users find the KEY to their growth by voting for Roxanne’s next Enneagram book, Deep Living, at the   NextTopAuthor competition at @ http://bit.ly/NextTopAuthor

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Categories : Awakening, Awareness, Be a Deep Coaching Practitioner, Being Present, Coach training, Coaching, Deep Coaching - The Book, Enneagram, Essential Nature, Paradoxes, Presence, Uncategorized
Tags : Awakening, Body intelligence, Centers of Intelligence, Coaching, Deep Coaching - The Book, Enneagram Coaching, Heart, Heart Intelligence, Presence, Transformation



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